{"id":576,"date":"2014-06-04T15:53:22","date_gmt":"2014-06-04T15:53:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/insideout.insidewp.test\/?p=576"},"modified":"2014-06-04T15:53:22","modified_gmt":"2014-06-04T15:53:22","slug":"5-generations-of-christian-education","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/2014\/06\/04\/5-generations-of-christian-education\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Generations and 1 Kim Fleming"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: right\">by Tanya Kieneker<\/h2>\n<p>As I sit down on Kim Fleming\u2019s couch, our kids playing quietly around the house, she jumps right in. She knows the topic of our interview, so it only makes sense that she skips all the pleasantries.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSo here\u2019s a good story. When my mom and dad first got married, they had someone from the church come over and ask them how much they were making. The church then said, \u2018OK, this is how much you\u2019ll be giving to the Christian School.\u2019\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Me:<em> Donating?<br \/> <\/em>Kim:<em> Donating!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ok, she has my attention.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThey didn\u2019t even have any children. And this was on top of what they were giving to the church. The best part is that they moved before their kids ever ended up going to that school. But they were part of that community, therefore they supported Christian education.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We both agreed that times had changed.<\/p>\n<h1>\u00a0<\/h1>\n<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 hundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-overflow:visible;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last fusion-column-no-min-height\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div id=\"attachment_585\" style=\"width: 815px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-585\" class=\"size-full wp-image-585 lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/insideout2.insidewp.test\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2014\/06\/ACS-Board.jpg\" alt=\"The first School Board of ACS: (back row) G. Ridder, D. Vaandgrager, J. Hoogendoorn (Kim's great-grandfather), T. Dejong; (front row) O. VanderHoek, H. Advocaat, R. Huizenga\" width=\"805\" height=\"350\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/ACS-Board-300x130.jpg 300w, https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/ACS-Board-768x334.jpg 768w, https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/ACS-Board.jpg 805w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 805px) 100vw, 805px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 805px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 805\/350;\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-585\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The first School Board of ACS: (back row) G. Ridder, D. Vaandgrager, J. Hoogendoorn (Kim&#8217;s great-grandfather), T. Dejong; (front row) O. VanderHoek, H. Advocaat, R. Huizenga<\/p><\/div>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #005693\">GENERATION #1<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Kim\u2019s great-grandfather, her Opa, was very passionate about Christian education. In fact, he was on the very first ACS Board in 1951\u2014two years before the school opened its doors. He and his wife had six sons and five daughters, but by the time ACS began, only the few youngest of his 11 children were able to attend. The rest never experienced Christian education despite their father\u2019s passion.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #005693\">GENERATION #2<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Fast-forward a number of years, and one of the oldest of those 11 children, Kim\u2019s grandfather, helped to start Vernon Christian School. The story goes that one day he said,\u00a0<em>\u201cWhy don\u2019t we get this started?\u201d<\/em> And they did. But similar to the story of the generation before him, none of his kids went to Christian school\u2014once his kids were school-aged, they moved to a small town with only public education.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #005693\">GENERATION #3<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-581 lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/insideout2.insidewp.test\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2014\/06\/Kim-Dad.jpg\" alt=\"Kim-Dad\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/Kim-Dad-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/Kim-Dad.jpg 250w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 250px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 250\/250;\" \/>Jump ahead another generation and we have Kim\u2019s dad, who was always heavily involved in the Vernon Christian School Board. <em>\u201cMy dad said it was funny because he remembers that everyone drove old junkers, but that was totally normal and acceptable because having their kid in Christian education was more important than&#8230;. I think that a shift has come. It\u2019s more of an option for people now. It was not then, it\u00a0wasn&#8217;t\u00a0something that was an accessory\u00a0for their kids. It was a necessity.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>So why were these three men so passionate about Christian education? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI think it was because they wanted to see God as part of their whole life, not just put into specific areas. God had a part in their job, everything, not just Sundays,\u201d<\/em> suggests Kim.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #005693\">GENERATION #4<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>And now we finally get to Kim. After decades of family commitment and service to Christian education, it was finally the fourth family generation, Kim and her cousins, who were all able to attend Christian school.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cMy cousins and I had a real sense of ownership for our school. I remember saying to kids on the swings, \u2018I can kick you off of there if I want to because my dad helped build the school!\u2019\u201d\u00a0<\/em>Nice Kim. Nice.<\/p>\n<p>As she starts to share more stories about her school days, she comments that a lot of things have changed in education in general since then.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #20bbd9\"><strong><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-582 lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/insideout2.insidewp.test\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2014\/06\/Kim-Grade-3.jpg\" alt=\"Kim-Grade-3\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/Kim-Grade-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/abbotsfordchristian.com\/insideout\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2014\/06\/Kim-Grade-3.jpg 250w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 250px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 250\/250;\" \/>Example #1:<\/strong> <\/span>When she was in elementary school, their class used to go down the school field, crawl under a barb wire fence, run across a busy freeway with their skates, all so they could skate on Swan Lake. <em>\u201cYou don\u2019t do that anymore. You sign a field trip notice to walk to the park,\u201d <\/em>she jokes.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #20bbd9\">Example #2:<\/span><\/strong> In middle school, she and her cousin were the only two girls on the boys\u2019 basketball team because there was no such thing as a girls\u2019 team. Their teacher was a lover of sports\u2014he was really intense about basketball and so a few educational priorities may have been rearranged. <em>\u201cWe practiced a lot. During our lunch hour, we would be practicing basketball, but then that would stretch way past lunch. That\u00a0wouldn&#8217;t\u00a0go over now-a-days. We won though&#8230;this little Christian school against the public schools.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #005693\">Generation #5 <\/span><\/h1>\n<p>But the story doesn&#8217;t end with Kim. After graduating from Trinity Western University with a degree in (you guessed it) education, she moved to Abbotsford with her husband John. They tossed around the idea of enrolling their first-born, Zach, in French immersion at a public school when he started Kindergarten. But that thought ended quickly.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI had taught at ACS and I knew their philosophy and their feeling behind things. I like how they embraced every child, not just the ones that excel in a certain area. Everybody is a member of God\u2019s family\u2014everybody has a role to play.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<p>She sees how Christian education shows up in her kids\u2019 little worldviews already\u2014in the stories they come home from school with. She shares that when her daughter Deanna was working on an Explorer project, she had to answer the question \u201cWas he an honourable explorer?\u201d Kim didn&#8217;t understand what that meant and Deanna said,\u00a0<em>\u201cWell, did he just come in and take over, and put in all his own ideas&#8230;or did he listen up to what other people had to say?\u201d<\/em> \u00a0Kim was impressed that she wasn&#8217;t only learning the historical facts, but also discerning Christ-like character in the people involved.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #20bbd9\"><em>\u201cAnd not saying that because our kids are at ACS they are going to be these perfect Christians. Shoot! I would pay double if they could guarantee that! But it\u2019s not an angel factory.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As we wrap up the interview part of our visit (mainly because our \u201cangel\u201d children are hungry), she adds one final thought. \u201c<em>I think it was a different feel back then. It was more about what can I give, than what can this school do for my child. I guess what I&#8217;d like to see us all doing with ACS\u00a0is\u00a0embracing the school as \u2018our school\u2019\u00a0and doing our part to make it a better place.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Point taken. \u00a0I\u2019m just glad no one is coming to my house later today to ask how much money I make.<\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Tanya Kieneker As I sit down on Kim Fleming\u2019s couch, our kids playing quietly around the house, she jumps right in. She knows the topic of our interview, so it only makes sense that she skips all the pleasantries. \u201cSo here\u2019s a good story. 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